Are YoU ReaLLy Following Your Dreams ??

"All men dream but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes to make it possible." - T.E. Lawrence

I was in my examination hall the time I realized it was something I never wanted to do on first place. It was the second chance I had given to my self. Even after working so hard and putting my all efforts I couldn't do anything. That was the time I realized where did I wanted to go ?

what was i doing ?

Was doing something in which I had no interest. Even after four years I would be an Engineer but  will I be even happy ? I literally cried on my stupidity that day. Was very upset that day . It was late night I wasn't even sleepy , went online . A friend of my from no where randomly asked me " What was the thing you really want to do in your life ? any Aim ? any goals ? What is the thing that makes you happy ? " I seriously had no answer for this any of his questions. Was hurt and thought of going to sleep. Went on bed tried to sleep but I couldn't. All I could do that night was to think and nothing more and then it just bought me to a conclusion

 "What is it with people refusing to take some risks to follow their dreams. Are their dreams not worth it? If not, why do we sulk about them later? Don't we owe it to ourselves to at least give our dreams a fair shot? and for God's sake don't kill your dreams."
when we were kids and someone asked What was it that we wanted to do ? that time no one said " I want to work in government office or a wanted to do some damn table work " So why is that I stopped dreaming. Just cause my loved one's wanted to see me as an engineer. I really thought harder what was it I always wanted to do I had many options what I always chose of Animator , Architect , Interior designer & Fashion designer. But wasn't sure for what. Later after thinking a lot i discover Fashion designing was something I wanted to do since my childhood. I had developed an interest in sticking cloths for my doll when I was small,So why not I follow my Dreams and stop living my life like others wanted to be ?
Its always the baby step first. Like Tony Robbins put it - "The only thing that's keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself about why you can't have it" 
And that was the time i had a sign of relief and slept at 5:00 in the morning. And then I exactly knew what I had to do ... 
 True success is not money driven, it's driven by love and passion. You've got to love what you are doing and you've got to be passionate about it.Failing is not scary. What scary is when you are 50 and you turn back and all you can is to regret saying " what if i had .... ?"  But now it's too late. You might have missed the train.


FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS. DON'T BE SCARED OF IT. THINKING WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK OR SAY. BECAUSE THEY NOT THE ONE WHO IS GONNA LEAD YOUR LIFE. PEOPLE SAY LET THEM. YOU GOT TO DO WHAT YOU WANT... !
So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains
And we never even know we have the key.

How Much This World Needs YOU..

Have you where thought how much this world needs you ?

You may be a party animal or may be socially in demand between your friends. But have you ever wonder how many really needs you.
I am a very fun loving person with lots of friends around me. Despite of this sometimes I am not happy and I really feel I am all alone. Because its not always the same as it looks like. People are only nice to you till they have some work with you. The day there is no need of you. Even friends don't stay  long. So never be dependent on others. Self work will only give you self satisfaction. 

No matter how much people you have. You are still alone. Only family that matters much. 
Long years of friendship so often forgotten. That some pretend like they don't know you even after seeing you. People say so good about you , some even promise to stay long. But at the end of the day how many known people even call you and ask how are you ? how was your day ? good night .. !!


How much ever you are socially good. The day you are far from everyone. You only enter a new world and find new people and join the race of life & the only the thing that stays is bag filled with lots of memories.

"Memory is a child walking along a seashore.  You never can tell what small pebble it will pick up and store away among its treasured things.  ~Pierce Harris, Atlanta Journal"

What Makes You Happy .. :)

The key to happiness is to appreciate what you have. If it’s so simple, why are so many people unhappy?

Happiness comes from mastering the art of appreciating. People often think happiness is based on what you achieve and acquire. My whole life would improve if I had a new car…
I just need a better job and then I can relax and be happy…
If only I met the right girl/ guy .

Later u get a car . Drive one whole week and then it becomes a part of  your daily life . And there you are again back to the same place where you were before. Getting a better job or meeting the right person isn’t  going to make you satisfy.

Happiness is just a state of mind  and its always found in small things of life.  Asking for more is a human tendency and getting bored with it later is also a human tendency.  Always be happy with what your have and where YOU are. Happiness, more than anything. It  is a choice we make every day.  Happinesss is understanding the things we can’t change and still working out on it.Put smile on your face. It changes how you think. Happiness is in the way you think. No one can make you happy except yourself.

ONE SECRET :  PROBLEM = CATALYST TO TAKE ACTION – unknown.

The Big Things Yet to Learn .. ..

Life is really to big to cry on small things.

The Big things that every person need to understand is LEARNING

The more a person commits mistakes , the more he learn from it. One thing that can never be stopped is to Stop leaning. The more a person grows the more he learn. We get upset over the small things, what is not important. The true secret of life is in facing the challenges. And to learn from it.Because its always said learn ..live dare to care.

I always get upset over small small things which is not at all important to worry about. Self confidence &  Aim to do something . Is my recipe to for Life. I don’t say I am good at things. I may not be good at studies. But i may be good at other things. Great things come with lots of efforts in life. A person can’t be rich if he just sit and think of being rich. He gets rich when he works for it and that comes when he learning to handle his hurdles on his way. Life is a long road and roads ain’t always at its best ..

Life is like a Juggling Act. How do you become a good Juggler ??? .. you First….PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE. FALL .. FALL ..FALL ..GET UP GET UP ..AGAIN FALL. and then one day you become best at it. Learning is the rule of all successful life.

There are so many good things to accomplish with your life.  Not the least (but actually the most important) is your life of learning to walk more and more steady with the Lord.

The only one who falls short of the goal is the one who chooses to stop….for whatever reason.