Friday, June 3

Thursday, June 2

The Monsoon begins . . . .






It is pouring heavily, the first rain. The smell from parched earth and I feel like eating it. Then I smile, to myself and say silently “that’s like a kid” and smile again, more at the thought of my childhood than the idea of eating earth. I wait under the shed and look in to the darkness around and extend my hand to feel the invisible rain through my skin. I feel the droplets hitting me at my palm and arm. They are cold and giving a pleasing sensation to my skin. I bring my hand back close to my eyes and in the intermittent lightening flashes see the tiny sparkles on my palm and arm. Cold Winds touching my face and moving my hair. It’s the sensation of drops on my skin which has caused them to rise. Another lightening flash and I look at these hairs again.
I remember when I was a child they used to be golden in colour, now they have turned black.
Just like my heart.
From golden to black, from gold to coal, and I hardly noticed it. That’s like most of us.

Here's how one should select SIGNATURE FRAGRANCE. . .


  • Always keep in mind that there are three fragrance notes, which change with time , and so one should choose the lighter fragrances for the day and deep and intense one foe the evening. There will always be a dominating note that reveals the family of scent, which lead to the choice you have made, depending on your sense of smell and the comfort and confidence a particular fragrance gives you.
  • However, while choosing a fragrance, do consider the fact that every fragrance changes with an individuals body chemistry. Some perfume scents get thrown off when mingled up with the natural body scent. In order to avoid this, find a perfume that complements the acidity level of your body and skin. If is sour or pungent while you wear it , the scent may not be complementing your body. Make sure you get the right perfume for you.
  • Every perfume has a texture. Some fragrance are like silk or velvet , rich and royal; other are practical and casual like gabardine. On vacation , one wants to be free from everyday routine of life, so the perfume should feel like chiffon or linen , free and flowing or like the fabric of well-worn.
" Quite often , we belief is that strong fragrances should be worn when the temperature are high , but in fact , it is exactly the contrary. The hotter the climate , he more lighter should be the fragrance. "
  

Sunday, May 29

FASHION DISASTER ? look back !


We all want to look great, we really do. But a lot of us fall under the influence of any one of various distractions towards creating a look that is truly ours.
Below are the few reasons ..Why we do fall in the category of DISASTER.
1) You tend to wear all same color :
There is some room and certain circumstances in which you can get away with wearing all the same color, weddings and funerals come to mind.But if feel compelled to wear same color from top to bottom then its is something you should think about. Particularly those loud colors; eighties bright neon colors or nineties bright lime green, yellow, pink or orange. But if is has to be black color do it that way is should look sophisticated and show up some attitude and right confidence.
Wearing all same color can be turn off for some.
2) You're oversimplifying anti-fashion :
To be simple is good. But to over do the stuff can make u look ugly. Anti-fashion is a way of asserting other attitudes, beliefs, theories and ideas about fashion that are outside of the mainstream.
3)You rely too heavily on denim :
Denim is both anti-fashionable and chic at once, and it is often tempting to mash up the rules to create your own style. But certain colors still go with blue and black, the fact of your wearing jeans does not mean that you get to forgo fashion rules in the name of denim. You still want denim that is light enough, yet not ripped, loose enough, yet not ridiculously baggy, to create the right look for you. You still want to look comfortable, regardless of what the fashion core kids told you. Respect denim and it can do wonders for you, neglect it and you'll look like a bum all over again.
4) Always wear belt : Pants have belt-loops for a reason.
5) Do not wear free company t-shirt : Free t-shirts are great ! But do not wear it when actually going out.
6) Throw your clothes if it that hole or discoloration :
It doesn’t matter how tiny the hole is – get rid of worn out clothing immediately! The ONE exception is jeans. This also applies to shoes.
7) Never wear socks with sandals:
There are few things women hate more than this footwear choice. Ask any woman you can find – to them, wearing socks with sandals is an extremely heinous act

Saturday, April 2

The Word F



Fashion Trends are like little snowflakes ,they fall ,they twinkle and then melt away .


Great style sense is all about knowing what works for you and personalizing that look. Blindly following fashion trends, no matter what your age, is not a particularly smart thing to do, unless you know how to work the trend to your advantage!
“The secret to pulling off desirable style is simply knowing what suits you and what most definitely doesn’t.”

So what is fashion all about ?


Style is about wearing something that makes you feel good, flatters your body shape and makes you look classy and not tarty. It is also about understanding what is dressing appropriately for your age, avoiding looking as if you are trying to hard to be young or as if you want to raid your grandmother’s closet.


Most people pay attention to fashion in small doses which is a very healthy way to approach it. They make sure wardrobes are in step with the times and even indulge in a trend or two each season. Even if you say you don't care about fashion and don't dress to make a statement, you are making a statement (that you don't care about fashion).

Following the latest trends of the season shows your thinking is modern and flexible. Everything one puts on sends out a message. Fashion statements can be made with clothes, accessories, shoes, hair, makeup, even your cellphone.

So not only following the latest trends is beneficial, but one has to be conscious of their personal style and convenience.

Sunday, February 6

Do all good you can ..

Why are people so mean?
Hmm, it's a human nature. Human-being as a part of the animal world are selfish and fighting for survival.Each creature is selfish in its own way-try to take a piece of meat away from your sweet pet-dog ,you take a risk to be bitten.  It's sad to live in a world where even small children display such hateful behavior. Yes, human beings have been hurt. We ALL have been mistreated or neglected by someone. However! That doesn't nor will ever in the future justify being a jerk to someone who did nothing to deserve it. It's a choice to be mean and it's a choice to be nice. I choose to be nice. Years of friendship doesn't matter sometimes. I am really disappointed the way even friends behave to us. I mean how much mean some of them can be. They be with use till they have some work, saying they never will never leave us. And leave us when there work is done someday.
But still an unknown person seemed to be so nice to me. I was travelling in a bus on Monday afternoon. I didn't had any change to give the bus conductor. I only had Rs 500/- but no change. I was really tensed seeing it because bus conductors don't give us the change for Rs.10 and i had 500. Thinking what to do next. The old man nearly the age of my grandpa sitting next to me said " Even I don't have the change for 500 , but i can surly buy a ticket for you." and so, did he got me a ticket. I was really happy that day and felt like hugging him. Was so grateful to him. He was Stranger to me still seemed to be a friend.


"Do all the good you can, By all the means you can, In all the ways you can, In all the places you can, At all the  times you can, To all the people you can, As long as ever you can”.


So be nice to people. You be nice to someone and someday you get it's gift as a help. when life is flying by, it is hard to see the person in need living near you. When you are just trying to keep your head above water, it is hard to help another person swim.Life is really good and happiness of it is in the small things. 
Ask yourself sometime..
What are some ways you can slow down enough to notice the world around you? How can you make kind gestures and smiles as you go throughout your day, busy or not? How can you make the people you come in contact with feel better than before they saw you? How can you make a difference where you are right now?  

Monday, January 31

Are YoU ReaLLy Following Your Dreams ??

"All men dream but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes to make it possible." - T.E. Lawrence


I was in my examination hall the time I realized it was something I never wanted to do on first place. It was the second chance I had given to my self. Even after working so hard and putting my all efforts I couldn't do anything. That was the time I realized where did I wanted to go ?
what was i doing ?
Was doing something in which I had no interest. Even after four years I would be an Engineer but  will I be even happy ? I literally cried on my stupidity that day. Was very upset that day . It was late night I wasn't even sleepy , went online . A friend of my from no where randomly asked me " What was the thing you really want to do in your life ? any Aim ? any goals ? What is the thing that makes you happy ? " I seriously had no answer for this any of his questions. Was hurt and thought of going to sleep. Went on bed tried to sleep but I couldn't. All I could do that night was to think and nothing more and then it just bought me to a conclusion


 "What is it with people refusing to take some risks to follow their dreams. Are their dreams not worth it? If not, why do we sulk about them later? Don't we owe it to ourselves to at least give our dreams a fair shot? and for God's sake don't kill your dreams."
when we were kids and someone asked What was it that we wanted to do ? that time no one said " I want to work in government office or a wanted to do some damn table work " So why is that I stopped dreaming. Just cause my loved one's wanted to see me as an engineer. I really thought harder what was it I always wanted to do I had many options what I always chose of Animator , Architect , Interior designer & Fashion designer. But wasn't sure for what. Later after thinking a lot i discover Fashion designing was something I wanted to do since my childhood. I had developed an interest in sticking cloths for my doll when I was small,So why not I follow my Dreams and stop living my life like others wanted to be ?
Its always the baby step first. Like Tony Robbins put it - "The only thing that's keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself about why you can't have it" 
And that was the time i had a sign of relief and slept at 5:00 in the morning. And then I exactly knew what I had to do ... 
 True success is not money driven, it's driven by love and passion. You've got to love what you are doing and you've got to be passionate about it.Failing is not scary. What scary is when you are 50 and you turn back and all you can is to regret saying " what if i had .... ?"  But now it's too late. You might have missed the train.


FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS. DON'T BE SCARED OF IT. THINKING WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK OR SAY. BECAUSE THEY NOT THE ONE WHO IS GONNA LEAD YOUR LIFE. PEOPLE SAY LET THEM. YOU GOT TO DO WHAT YOU WANT... !
So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains
And we never even know we have the key.