Monday, January 31

Are YoU ReaLLy Following Your Dreams ??

"All men dream but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes to make it possible." - T.E. Lawrence


I was in my examination hall the time I realized it was something I never wanted to do on first place. It was the second chance I had given to my self. Even after working so hard and putting my all efforts I couldn't do anything. That was the time I realized where did I wanted to go ?
what was i doing ?
Was doing something in which I had no interest. Even after four years I would be an Engineer but  will I be even happy ? I literally cried on my stupidity that day. Was very upset that day . It was late night I wasn't even sleepy , went online . A friend of my from no where randomly asked me " What was the thing you really want to do in your life ? any Aim ? any goals ? What is the thing that makes you happy ? " I seriously had no answer for this any of his questions. Was hurt and thought of going to sleep. Went on bed tried to sleep but I couldn't. All I could do that night was to think and nothing more and then it just bought me to a conclusion


 "What is it with people refusing to take some risks to follow their dreams. Are their dreams not worth it? If not, why do we sulk about them later? Don't we owe it to ourselves to at least give our dreams a fair shot? and for God's sake don't kill your dreams."
when we were kids and someone asked What was it that we wanted to do ? that time no one said " I want to work in government office or a wanted to do some damn table work " So why is that I stopped dreaming. Just cause my loved one's wanted to see me as an engineer. I really thought harder what was it I always wanted to do I had many options what I always chose of Animator , Architect , Interior designer & Fashion designer. But wasn't sure for what. Later after thinking a lot i discover Fashion designing was something I wanted to do since my childhood. I had developed an interest in sticking cloths for my doll when I was small,So why not I follow my Dreams and stop living my life like others wanted to be ?
Its always the baby step first. Like Tony Robbins put it - "The only thing that's keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself about why you can't have it" 
And that was the time i had a sign of relief and slept at 5:00 in the morning. And then I exactly knew what I had to do ... 
 True success is not money driven, it's driven by love and passion. You've got to love what you are doing and you've got to be passionate about it.Failing is not scary. What scary is when you are 50 and you turn back and all you can is to regret saying " what if i had .... ?"  But now it's too late. You might have missed the train.


FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS. DON'T BE SCARED OF IT. THINKING WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK OR SAY. BECAUSE THEY NOT THE ONE WHO IS GONNA LEAD YOUR LIFE. PEOPLE SAY LET THEM. YOU GOT TO DO WHAT YOU WANT... !
So often times it happens that we live our lives in chains
And we never even know we have the key.










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